David's adultery with Bathsheba suggests that
homosexuality was not David's problem. Jonathan had the
kind of distant father in Saul that may have made it
easy to desire a man homosexuality. Being married with
children doesn't automatically mean that someone is not
able to be homosexually active.
David's eulogy in II Samuel 1:28 says that Jonathan's love was greater than that of the love of a woman. David used the same word for love that is commanded of all Hebrews. God approves of same-sex love; God does not approve of same-sex sex. I hope to post [link not yet available] an essay with more details.
21 August 1996. Copyright information is available.